The Goodness in Tough Love Posted by Ashleigh Slater on July 29, 2008

This week we close our July discussion of goodness with an article from writer Misti Gil. In "The Gut-Level Friend," Misti shares how speaking the truth in love is one way we can show God's goodness to others. She writes about a close friendship and what God has taught her through it.

I'm thankful for Aimee. I'm thankful that I need her now as much as she needs me. And I'm thankful for one of the lessons our relationship has taught me: that speaking the truth in love, although uncomfortable, is essential to godly relationships. That "spur[ring] one another on toward love and good deeds" sometimes feels exactly like that: a spur in the side (Hebrews 10:24). But it's that spur that nudges us back onto the correct path. I've learned this is what a true friendship is about—loving one another enough to speak the hard things.

As I read this piece, I found myself freshly grateful for those in my life who are willing to tell me the truth even when it isn't easy.

I'd love to hear your thoughts on "The Gut-Level Friend." Do you have any relationships in your life where the truth is spoken in love? How has God shown you His goodness through these individuals?